Relationship Therapy

You’re at the brink.

The signs are all around you – anger and despair like you’ve never experienced before, a grudge that’s lasted three days, a child that’s asked you to stop fighting.

Many couples I see are at the brink of a divorce or feel trapped hoping only to survive in the relationship long enough for their children not to be affected by their conflict.

Perhaps you have felt a level of anger that has surprised you. Perhaps you have lost your sense of self and your vision of what a relationship is supposed to look like.

Couples argue, and often for good reason.

Whether it’s communication issues, minor conflicts that turn major, or differences that seem irreconcilable, an expert opinion or someone to mediate can be invaluable.

Couples typically avoid therapy because they’re afraid it will be too one-sided or that it can make things worse, causing big arguments after sessions.

A therapist can help foster balanced communication that resolves rather than exacerbates the problem.

Let’s hit the reset button on your relationship.

From the very first session I make it clear that my goal is to begin to undo destructive processes and behavioral patterns that are causing disconnect and to begin to establish new patterns that allow for couples to reconnect.

I work to help each individual to understand their position with greater clarity so that they can communicate their needs without anger, contempt, or vitriol.

Why We Do What We Do

Why do we feel resentment? Why do we hold grudges? Why do we punish each other rather than create opportunities to continue to learn about what we need and want?

I can help you understand these difficult Why questions. Many couples come away from the very first session with a greater understanding of flaws in communication and failed attempts to create understanding.

There are strategies you can employ now that will allow you to feel active in the process of change.

Stop waiting for things to get better or worse.

Reconnection occurs when we stop attacking and defending and start teaching and learning.

Cast aside your preconceived notions and your made-up mind. Begin learning about your partner again.

Your connection will grow. Your communication will improve. Reconciliation and a new relationship can be had.

Call (770) 337-1067 today to get the process started.